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The Friday Exhale: 5 Thoughts on the Week

I know that I tend to underestimate others: their loyalty, their ability to change, their resilience and willingness to persevere. Although I don’t trust easily, because I don’t want to be hurt, I do hope and am often surprised by people’s kindness and and generosity.

This small bush had grown quite large until it was cut to the bone a couple of years ago to provide easier access for some urgent masonry repairs. I reassured my son that it would grow again and I hoped that it would. However, part of me was not at all sure that it would be resilient enough to start again, but it has! Nature perseveres as much as it can and teaches us to not give up. – Maria

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The Friday Exhale: 5 Thoughts on the Week

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Do you believe this of yourself? I find that I as I get older it’s getting easier to believe in myself. Maybe it’s because I am caring less and less about what other people think of me. Maybe it’s because life is pretty busy these days and I don’t even have time to think about what I think people are thinking of me. I’ve wasted far too much time worrying about other people’s opinions of me but now, I don’t care anymore. Well, I care far less than I used to.

A therapist once said to me that there are always going to be people in the world who are talking about me, but what they say is only their memory or their concept of me. It actually has little to do with who I am. This idea resulted in a shift in my thinking. It made me see that the chatter is all irrelevant. People talk. But I’m here living my life and one has very little to do with the other.

I love the story this woman tells in this video. I hear this woman speaking to me during those moments when I get too self-conscious and start worrying about how people perceive me. She’s telling me to let it go. Stop the worrying. Be myself. Be true to who I am and who I want to be because “other people’s perception of you, ain’t none of your business.” – Cris

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