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Striving to Balance the Necessary Demands of Caregiving and Paid Work with Rest and Renewal

This is another post that was originally written for mariasmind.com. It has been slightly revised for clarity and refreshed with new images.

Rest when you’re weary. Refresh and renew yourself, your body, your mind, your spirit. Then get back to work. – Ralph Marston

Mental habits, well-worn patterns in our way of thinking and managing our lives, whether helpful or not, can become so ingrained that we do not always recognize how they affect us, until something happens that discombobulates us, upsets our apple cart. If the routines contribute something positive to our lives, whether it is some form of exercise, nurturing friendships or pastimes we enjoy, that is wonderful. Sometimes, however, it takes a kind, well-timed word to make us realize that our lives are out of whack. Although it can be hard to do, sometimes we must confront our misalignment when it begins to affect our sleep, our relationships, our overall state of mind. What to do?!

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Always and Forever, Being Grateful for our Dearest Darlings

          Above all else, Cris and I are grateful for our children.

Niagara River near the base of Niagara Falls, Ontario

They are at the core, the centre from which all else radiates, the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Maybe, “somewhere in my youth or childhood/I must have done something good” (Rodgers The Sound of Music) in order to have them travelling with me on the roads of life.

          My children are all adults in their 30s. They listen to me, put up with my longwindedness, unfinished, confusing sentences and repetition, with minimal impatience: “Y’know, you repeat yourself a lot more often than you think you do.” They know better than to believe me when I preface a story by saying I’m going to try to be reasonably concise. Ha!

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